Family Mini-Intervention

Step 1: Breathe

Take good self care—you will need to bring your best self to take action against the chemical that has invaded your family.

Use calming breaths to reduce stress and be able to think logically.

Step 2: Observe objectively

Look at your Loved One’s behavior through the lens of a video camera: what do you hear and see with no assumptions.

Step 3: Write it down.

Writing helps take out the judgements and the negativity

Writing it down will help you and your Loved One see patterns.

Step 4: Script your response to the behaviors

Lovingly write out what you intend to say. Take time to think it through. Then, put it away and wait for the right time to deliver your message.

Step 5: Feedback your observations and decisions

  • Take out the anger, replace with loving kindness
  • Focus on the objective facts
  • Express your concerns
  • State your boundaries